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The shoes put on each time
left first, then right.
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The morning potion’s teaspoon
of sweetness stirred always
for seven circlings—no fewer, no more—
into the cracked blue cup.
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Touching the pocket for wallet,
for keys,
before closing the door.
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How did we come
to believe these small rituals’ promise,
that we are today the selves we yesterday knew,
tomorrow will be?
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How intimate and unthinking,
the way the toothbrush is shaken dry after use,
the part we wash first in the bath.
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Which habits we learned from others
and which are ours alone we may never know.
Unbearable to acknowledge
how much they are themselves our fated life.
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Open the traveling suitcase—
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There the beloved red sweater,
bright tangle of necklace, earrings of amber.
Each confirming: I chose these, I.
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But habit is different: it chooses.
And we, its good horse,
opening our mouths at even the sight of the bit.
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~ Jane Hirshfield
from Given Sugar, Given Salt
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